22 Men Dish on the Hottest Oral Sex They’ve Ever Received
It never hurts to give your guy some incentive to return the favor…
There are lots of great reasons to have guy friends, but one of the biggest ones is that they are amazing advice givers. Since you’re not dating them, they have no problem telling it exactly how it is—and from a dude’s perspective, no less. We decided to take advantage of this awesome relationship and ask our guy friends to reveal the best oral sex they’ve ever gotten. Our logic? Armed with this info, you can try these moves out on your guy—and prepare to, um, blow him away.
Have a Ball
“I love it when my girlfriend cups my balls as she is sucking on my penis. She holds them in one hand and occasionally gives them a squeeze. Working my balls and my penis at the same time makes the entire sensation so much stronger. I nearly erupt!” —Ben, 30
Butt Out!
“One of my favorite feelings in the world is when my girlfriend gives me a butt massage. So when she’s going down on me, she’ll occasionally reach both of her hands under my butt cheeks and start massaging them as my penis is in her mouth or as she’s licking my balls. When this happens, I feel like it is the best day in the entire world. It couldn’t get any better than that.” —Mike, 28
Just Breathe
“The girl I’m dating loves to tease me before she gives me oral. One time, she had me lie on my back, and then she chilled in the space between my knees and simply looked down at my penis. She spent a good 30 seconds just looking at it, and then she got down there and started breathing on it and around it, but she didn’t actually touch it for another minute or so. The suspense killed me, and it made the moment when she finally made her move that much more thrilling!” —Dave, 27
Touch Yourself
“One of the girls I used to date was all about touching herself while she was giving me oral. Seeing her get off turned me on so much more than having her just please me and only me. The combo of watching her masturbate plus having her touch me was almost too much to handle—sensation overload!” —Adam, 30
Plan a Trip
“For my birthday last year, my girlfriend surprised me with a trip to Vermont in January. She picked this super romantic hotel with a fireplace and cozy bedding, and had brought along a bunch of candles for our room. She lit the candles when we first got in and instructed me to just lie on the bed and let her go down on me. Just knowing how much thought she put into her gift made the blow job super intimate and special. I will never forget that night!” —Daniel, 31
Make It a Truly Happy Hour
“I live with my girlfriend, and she texted me to see when I would be home for work. When I arrived, she was ready at the door and she literally pounced on me and dragged me to the couch and took off my pants. Then, without saying anything, she just started giving me oral. It was literally one of the best things ever.” —Bill, 31
Give Him Lip Service
“It sounds kind of weird, but once the girl I’m dating took my penis in her hand and slowly traced the head around her lips, almost like she was applying lipstick. It was a very tingly sensation, and it got me so excited for when she got going again.” —Zach, 25
Smile
“One of my pet peeves is when girls get down there and treat it like a chore. You can just tell that they’re not enjoying it because they keep their head down and don’t show any enthusiasm. It’s so much better when girls smile and laugh during it. One time my girlfriend gagged a little bit, and then she just got up and started cracking up. It really lightened the mood, and we both felt so much better and more comfortable after that!” —Patrick, 35
Go For the Magic Spot
“Okay, there is this one thing my girlfriend does that literally makes me lose my sh*t almost every time. There is this spot underneath my balls but not yet at my butt [editor’s note: It’s called the perineum] that’s super soft and sensitive. So she’ll lie down on her stomach and get under there with her tongue and just slowly lick the spot for a bit before heading back to my penis. I can’t contain myself; my entire body starts convulsing. It is so amazing.” —Tommy, 31
Get a Head Start
“I love it when my lady takes her time and licks the entire circumference of the head of my penis. She goes in a complete circle a couple times, and her tongue feels sooo sexy. I’m getting steamed up just thinking about it.” —Rob, 28
Speak Up
“Sometimes my girlfriend will stop what she’s doing in the middle of a blow job and ask me what I want her to do next. The cool part is that I know she knows what to do, but she checks in to see if I have anything special in mind or to see what she can do to please me right then. Just knowing that she wants to please me is such a turn on—and makes me want to please her even more after she’s finished.” —Matty, 33
Lick it Like a Lollipop
“You know that song, the lollipop song? That’s basically what my girlfriend does when she’s going down on me. She’ll wait until my penis is completely erect, and then she’ll hold it in her hands and lick it from the bottom to the top all around the entire thing. Feels great.” —Seth, 29
Try Some Teeth
“Usually I hate it when girls use their teeth during oral sex. It hurts. But what can be great is when she does it in a super gentle way. The girl I’m dating right now once did this thing where she lightly traced her teeth all along my shaft and used her tongue to lightly lick it at the same time, too. It was surprisingly great!” —Nick, 33
Bust Out a Bathroom Quickie
“My girlfriend and I were having dinner at this sushi restaurant, and it was taking forever for our rolls to arrive. She turned to me and whispered, ‘Meet me in the bathroom.’ I couldn’t tell if she was serious, but she got up, so I followed a couple minutes later. We locked ourselves in the co-ed bathroom, and she proceeded to just kneel down and give me a blow job. It was by far the sexiest blow job I’ve ever gotten because it was so spontaneous, and the thrill of potentially getting caught made it seem extra special. Girlfriend for the win!” —Keith, 29
Cool It
“My girlfriend and I try to keep it real in the bedroom and always try new things. A couple days ago, she brought a cup of ice water to bed and put an ice cube in her mouth right before giving me oral. The freezing sensation felt amazing and really heightened the experience!” —Kevin, 29
Make His Morning
“I had a super important meeting at work last week, and I was telling my girlfriend about it at night. Early that morning, she woke me up with a surprise blow job to start my day off right. It definitely put me in a great mood, and I killed the meeting that day!” —Chris, 29
Reach For the Thighs
My inner thighs are super sensitive, and it feels so great when my girlfriend massages them. The other day, I got home from a run and we started fooling around, and she paused in the middle of the blow job to massage and kiss my inner thighs. By the time she got back to my penis, I was so turned on that I orgasmed in about two seconds. So. Awesome.” —Rick, 29
Play Hum
“My girlfriend will occasionally hum a little bit while my penis is inside her mouth. It’s awesome because it adds more to the oral and makes it more dynamic. It’s also funny because we do yoga together, so whenever we get to the “omm” part at the end, I picture her saying ommmm during oral. Definitely makes the yoga a little bit hotter!” —Ray, 29
Intensify His O
“I love it when my girlfriend pulls on my balls right before I’m about to come. That extra tug makes my orgasm so much more intense!” —Brad, 24
Annie Daly is a New York City-based freelance writer, editor, and author who specializes in wellness, travel, and culture. She is the author of Destination Wellness (2021), and co-author of Island Wisdom (2022). A former editor at SELF, Cosmopolitan, BuzzFeed Travel, Yahoo Travel, and Good Housekeeping, she has also written for a variety of publications, including Condé Nast Traveler, Vogue, Travel + Leisure, Marie Claire, InStyle, and AFAR, among others. To follow her work, find her on IG @anniemdaly and subscribe to her Substack, Destination Wellness.
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