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If you're lucky enough to have a supple pair of breasts land right in your face, what's your plan of action?
Sure, you could squeeze them, suck on them, or simply just admire them—and you'd definitely enjoy that.
But how do you send her the most pleasure via her breasts—and possibly even make her orgasm?
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“First, recognize that each pair of breasts belongs to a person,” says Stephen de Wit, Ph.D., sexologist and author of the forthcoming book The Sexual Freedom System.
Learning to touch a woman’s tatas is not like learning to play the piano, where you can memorize exactly where to put your fingers to make music. Breasts are individual, and so every pair must be treated differently.
There’s no way to know how her twins are wired until you ask her, but the size of her breasts and nipples may give you some clues.
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Research suggests that smaller sets are more responsive than larger ones, since the nerves are closer together. That could mean that she’s more receptive and aroused by breast play.
Another study suggests that the same is true of women with large nipples, which are more likely to be sensitive than smaller nipples.
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If you aren’t sure where to begin, de Wit recommends a technique called “sensate focus.”
The goal is to touch your partner as slowly and lightly as you possibly can, circling your fingers around her nipples, her areolae (the part surrounding the nipple), and her breasts.
This exercise can “create a slower, more intimate sex session,” de Wit says, or it can be used to build toward something more intense.
Related: 4 Women-Approved Secrets About Breasts
As for the alleged nipple orgasm? It’s completely legit: Research shows that stimulating a woman’s nipples lights up the same part of the brain as when you target her clitoris, so for some women, the act can bring her to climax.
Sadly, there's no easy how-to guide, de Wit says. You have to play around and learn what kind of pressure, motion, and intensity works for each woman.
If nipple play isn't her cup of tea—and 7 percent of women say it actually decreases their arousal—try cupping her breasts instead.
Touching the surrounding area may feel better. (And for more breast tips, check out The Best Ways to Touch Her Breasts.)
